Handle module errors more robustly and add query params to light preset and transition (#1043)

Ensures that all modules try to access their data in `_post_update_hook` in a safe manner and disable themselves if there's an error.
Also adds parameters to get_preset_rules and get_on_off_gradually_info to fix issues with recent firmware updates.
Cherry pick of [#1036](https://github.com/python-kasa/python-kasa/pull/1036) to patch

kasa/smart/modules/frostprotection.py

@@ -14,6 +14,10 @@ class FrostProtection(SmartModule):
     REQUIRED_COMPONENT = "frost_protection"
     QUERY_GETTER_NAME = "get_frost_protection"
 
+    def query(self) -> dict:
+        """Query to execute during the update cycle."""
+        return {}
+
     @property
     def enabled(self) -> bool:
         """Return True if frost protection is on."""