Handle module errors more robustly and add query params to light preset and transition (#1036)

Ensures that all modules try to access their data in `_post_update_hook` in a safe manner and disable themselves if there's an error.
Also adds parameters to get_preset_rules and get_on_off_gradually_info to fix issues with recent firmware updates.
[#1033](https://github.com/python-kasa/python-kasa/issues/1033)

kasa/smartprotocol.py

@@ -416,6 +416,10 @@ class _ChildProtocolWrapper(SmartProtocol):
         return smart_method, smart_params
 
     async def query(self, request: str | dict, retry_count: int = 3) -> dict:
+        """Wrap request inside control_child envelope."""
+        return await self._query(request, retry_count)
+
+    async def _query(self, request: str | dict, retry_count: int = 3) -> dict:
         """Wrap request inside control_child envelope."""
         method, params = self._get_method_and_params_for_request(request)
         request_data = {