Defer module updates for less volatile modules (#1052)

Addresses stability issues on older hw device versions

 - Handles module timeout errors better by querying modules individually on errors and disabling problematic modules like Firmware that go out to the internet to get updates.
- Addresses an issue with the Led module on P100 hardware version 1.0 which appears to have a memory leak and will cause the device to crash after approximately 500 calls.
- Delays updates of modules that do not have regular changes like LightPreset and LightEffect and enables them to be updated on the next update cycle only if required values have changed.

kasa/smart/modules/lightstripeffect.py

@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@ from __future__ import annotations
 from typing import TYPE_CHECKING
 
 from ..effects import EFFECT_MAPPING, EFFECT_NAMES, SmartLightEffect
-from ..smartmodule import Module, SmartModule
+from ..smartmodule import Module, SmartModule, allow_update_after
 
 if TYPE_CHECKING:
     from ..smartdevice import SmartDevice
@@ -84,6 +84,7 @@ class LightStripEffect(SmartModule, SmartLightEffect):
         """
         return self._effect_list
 
+    @allow_update_after
     async def set_effect(
         self,
         effect: str,
@@ -126,6 +127,7 @@ class LightStripEffect(SmartModule, SmartLightEffect):
 
         await self.set_custom_effect(effect_dict)
 
+    @allow_update_after
     async def set_custom_effect(
         self,
         effect_dict: dict,